Dear First Parishers,
I had hoped that my last newsletter column before summer would be just that—a “have a happy summer” with gratitudes for the last year and information about summer goings-on for when folks are in town. I had hoped that the summer would bring a time for all of us to step back, get outdoors, and breathe a little easier in the face of the pandemic.
We all knew that the Supreme Court would overturn Roe v. Wade when the draft opinion was leaked earlier in May. So it was no surprise. And yet, it still felt like a gut punch when the news broke last week. Since then, I have been moving between anger, grief, and resignation. That this decision comes swiftly after the Supreme Court’s undermining of states’ rights to institute gun control only added insult to injury. The decision also sets up the possibility of curtailing women’s rights to access birth control as well equal marriage and even inter-racial marriage. Also concerning is the possibility that this Supreme Court will curtail voting rights and affirmative action. The new right-wing majority seems determined to send us firmly back to the 1950’s. It is easy to feel helpless and hopeless.
Mindfulness practice, prayer practice and grief work have all taught me to remember that emotions are just that: emotions. They are not the full story. I need to give them their due and the space to feel them. But they will pass and if I give myself time to let that happen, I can come to respond in ways that are grounded both spiritually and ethically in my Unitarian Universalist faith. Stepping back, I recognize that it took fifty years for the right-wing political and religious leaders to make this happen. It may take fifty years to work our way back. And there will probably be lots of pendulum swings in between. But it can and it will happen, if we are willing to make the commitment to make it happen. If you are interested in reading the UUA’s response, here is the link to a press release from the Reverend Susan Frederick Gray, the first woman elected President of the Unitarian Universalist Association: https://www.uua.org/pressroom/press-releases/committed-reproductive-justice.
Most helpful to me has been a prayer by Lutheran pastor, Nadia Bolz-Weber. I have copied it at the end for those of you who want to read it. What I loved about it is that while she acknowledged we have a long road ahead of us, she began with gratitude for the generations of women before her and in their spirit, she prayed not just for justice but for laughter, for compassion, for singing and, my favorite, for snacks. Prayer, like mindfulness, invites that stepping back to ground in these deeper, healing emotions and practices. Ones that build and sustain beloved community.
This past Sunday, four young people in our congregation shared their Coming-of-Age credos. Four young people who I have watched grow from toddlers to teenagers. Their words gave me hope for our future and also deepened my commitment to the values of our Unitarian Universalist faith and the covenant of our congregation. Given the covenants we made to them and their families at their child dedications and reaffirmed at their comings of age, I realize that despair is not an option. Whatever the political winds of our times, we are committed to the purposes and principles of our faith. Sometimes we are in step with the larger society around us, other times, not so much. That is why it matters that we nurture and sustain our beloved community through the good times and the hard times. We never know when we will have need of it. Or when our larger world will.
Take good care,