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 First Parish Chalice Labyrinth

In the spring on 2014, the Religious Education Committee and members at our Evening Services worked together to design and build our own Chalice Labyrinth.

Suggested Labyrinth Meditation Instructions:
Pause at the entrance-Create a centering thought…Take a deep breath,
And begin the walk…as you walk for the first two or three turns focus on your centering
thought…take a moment to examine your emotions, by the fourth turn begin to release your
thoughts and make your mind a blank slate…,
Quiet your thoughts and focus within…And allow what you believe is Divine to speak to you.

Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR) Vigil

Saturday, November 15, 7 PM

Chapel at First Parish UU Church, Chelmsford

tdorMost people trace the observance of Transgender Day of Remembrance, or TDOR  to the murder of Rita Hester in Boston on November 28, 1998. Her murder shook the local community, who responded with a walk through the streets and a candlelight vigil outside her apartment, organized by Gwendolyn Ann Smith, a transgender graphic designer, columnist, and activist. That walk and vigil are often said to have been the inspiration for what has become and international act of remembrance commemorating those who were killed by transphobic violence. In 1999, a candlelight vigil was held in San Francisco, and each year the remembrance has grown, so that it is now observed in over 166 cities in more than 20 countries. We have been observing it at First Parish Unitarian Universalist Church in Chelmsford since 2009. We believe that as more of us bear witness against transphobic violence, we make it impossible for our towns and cities and the world to ignore it.

In some places, the week leading up to or following the Day of Remembrance has become known as Transgender Awareness Week and has become a time of extensive awareness building and advocacy.  The actual day of remembrance is November 20, though for logistical reasons observances are often held on the weekend before or after the date. In Massachusetts, it is customary for towns that observe the remembrance to hold theirs on a date different from Boston. We also coordinate with Lowell so that we do not hold our vigil on the same date as Lowell.

It is important for you to know that not everyone remembered during the vigil may have considered themselves transgender, though each was a victim of violence based on intolerance of transgender and gender variant people. Some were friends, lovers and allies, killed while they were with a transgender person. Others may not have identified as such, but their attackers did not accept their gender expression.  It is also important to realize that there are many more victims than those whose lives are remembered during the vigil. There are many countries where it is so dangerous to be transgender that there are no support groups to report news of the community. The media varies in its respect for the transgender community, which also leads to some reports being missed. The police in countries that refuse to recognize transgender people may insist that the victim died from a robbery rather than a  hate crime. And there are many victims who died by their own hand,  because of the unbearable consequences of discrimination and rejection.

Transgender Day of Remembrance is more than just a memorial. It raises public awareness of the hatred and violence against those in our transgender community, , too often ignored by the media. It publicly mourns and honors the lives of those who might otherwise be forgotten, giving them a voice that should be heard. It is an opportunity to meet hatred and indifference with love and respect. When we vigil we stand together to remember them and say “No more!” to the phobia-sparked hatred and violence.

Our vigil will consist of readings, including some background on TDOR for those new to the observance, some readings, and the reading of the names of transgender and gender non-conforming people whose lives were reported lost to hate-generated violence during the past year. A candle will be lit for each person mentioned, including those whose names were not known. At the end of each page of names we will say, together, "We remember!"  There will also be some quiet music and at least one song for participants to sing.

For directions to the church and parking, please see http://www.uuchelmsford.org/directions.html

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We, the members of First Parish of Chelmsford, covenant together to sustain and strengthen our beloved community by:
Honoring and celebrating the Spirit of Life
Nurturing all souls in our search for truth and the sacred
Caring and being present to one another in our joys and sorrows
Bearing witness through service to justice and peace
And being good stewards of our congregation, our heritage, our Unitarian Universalist Principles, and our earth.

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First Parish Church
2 Westford St
Chelmsford MA 01824

978-256-5133